To release the pins from the connector, press the paperclip into the purple holes adjacent to each pin

While pressing the paperclip into the hole, gently pull the wire from the back of the connector while wiggling the paperclip

It shouldn't take much force to remove the pins when you correctly align the paperclip, do not force this apart because you can break the connector or wire!

Pay attention to how the pins sit in the housing, the pin must align with the connector housing when reassembled