Only the wool button will come on and it's flashing

I’m sorry to hear that your Kenmore Elite HE3 washing machine is not working properly. It sounds like you have a problem with the user interface control board, which is the part that controls the buttons and display on your washer. This part might be faulty or damaged, and it might need to be replaced.

To confirm this diagnosis, you can try to put your washer into a diagnostic test mode, which will check the functionality of different components of your washer. You can find the instructions on how to do that here. If the test mode shows an error code or fails to complete, it means that there is something wrong with your washer. You can also try to reset your washer by unplugging it for 5 minutes, or by pressing the STOP button twice and then the POWER button. You can find more details on how to do that here.

If none of these steps work, you may want to find a tutorial or video or something. Good luck! 😊