Shifting problems. No reverse, hesitates second and fourth gear.

1997 Odyssey. Occasional lag in shifting going into second and fouth gear. Will not shift into reverse, get a toothy gear skipping/grinding. Fluid levels fine. Changed shift and lock solonoid, did not correct issue. How to diagnose problem?

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