When lifting the car, DO NOT use a jack on the pinch welds. Instead, use the plate on the frame rails as shown.

When lifting with a jack and supporting with a jackstand:

Place the jack here

Place the jack stand here

I like to place towels or something else soft between the jack / stands and the car to protect the paint

Lift the car with the jack until you have the wheel a few inches off the ground. Then insert the jack stand and lower the car onto it.