cole Wengender the connector is a Fujikura/DDK FF14A-6C-R11DL-B-3H. You can get it on some places as a single item, others require you to buy at least 10. Do an online search with that number and see what will work for you. Then get yourself a few of those and gently lever one side, then the next side of the lock out of the connector. Transplant that lock to your connector.