@ntec those numbers are the position of the pins. Number 1 on the connector has to correspond with number 1 on the cable. It is not useful to find a replacement. Since there are no schematics available you would really have to do some tough searches at places like mouser.com digikey.com for something [https://www.digikey.com/en/products/filter/ffc-fpc-flat-flexible-connectors/399|like this] to see if you can find a match.