This has already been partially answered [post|514516] with the answer to buy a [https://www.flashbackltd.com/products/ps4-wireless-bluetooth-v4-0-usb-dongle|USB replacement], with the original poster saying that this was their way about doing so.
As for the charging, you would be just as well off buying any mini USB charging lead like the one linked [https://www.amazon.co.uk/Anker-2-Pack-Nylon-Braided-Tangle-Free/dp/B01DEMTOQ6/ref=asc_df_B01DEMTOQ6/?tag=googshopuk-21&linkCode=df0&hvadid=311075391090&hvpos=1o3&hvnetw=g&hvrand=3381300804146442850&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9044965&hvtargid=pla-350939785158&psc=1|here] and plugging it into any kind of plug socket that uses a USB (or even the PS4 itself). Hope this helps.