I had same problem. Using the verbal descriptions, was finally able to figure out where the gold connectors was.
See this link for photo:
https://s.real.com/jnjcW3
Be very careful when bending the connector pin to raise its height.
I bent mine too much. When bending it back lower, the pin broke.
So I had to solder some tin onto the base of the pin (where the pin used to be) --> very tough to get it just right, but eventually was successful.
Now I have my home button functional again...