The Ted fix worked for me as well.
For me, the symptoms are:
1. when I select "normal" cycle, it will switch to "heavy"
2. when I select "ultra handwash" cycle, it will switch to "whites"
For me, the key things are:
# unplug the power first
# It is the "grey" ribbon that connects from the front of the washer to the left side of the circuit board in the back of the washer.
# Gently unclip the ribbon from the left side and re-attach it.
# I also try "Lisa" poke in the front hole where the ribbon goes into.
After the reattachment of the ribbon, I can select all wash cycles.