i found holding down power button til you force a shut down a few times clears up cashes and the power button stays on but upon futher testing using the angle worked somewhat i found if i laid it flat and then moved not the plug but the cord to the plug i got the light to come on (orange charging light) and dont touch it til it done charging .
but i can see i might have to replace the port or have it cleaned--- one of the sites recommended me to buy a port and take it to a cell repair shop to have them replace it another choice for those not knowledgeable in electronic repairs
i also would be afraid of messing up the circuit board i'm a clutz im glad to know its possible that it just came lose and may not need it replacement
also amazon sells repair tool kit if anyone need to find one . thanks for all the info