Geoff Heyes, the relay is located under the hood, adjacent to the battery. You should see a black weather sealed box. You will need a long extension and a Torx ( I read a T20) socket to remove the cover. The indicator relay is the large yellow one.
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information from [http://www.bba-reman.com/forums/topic90900-1-1.aspx|here]