''Try swapping the bay'' (slot number) of the SSD for a few days to a week. Go back into '''System Preferecnes:Startup Disk''' to select it after you make the change.
'''You might need a new RRAM battery'''... I think that might be why it randomly "forgets" which is the boot drive-that is if it's not a bay/connector issue.
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